Useful Mom Information That Moms Actually Have Time to Read!
April 2006
Dear Busy Mamas,
Welcome to the Three
Minute Mom
Newsletter, a
newsletter that we busy moms actually have
time to read! I'm Carey Keavy, author of Raising
Your Own Children, a book which teaches moms
to
quit their full-time jobs and make living on one
income work for them. Inside of each issue you will
find money-saving ideas, parenting tips, and
more...all guaranteed to be readable in only three
minutes!
My husband and I recently invested in a business
venture for our oldest son. He just turned eleven,
and expressed interest in earning money for a video
game console. We were given the opportunity to
purchase an ice cream vending bicycle from an
acquaintance for a discounted price. Needless to
say, we have begun our journey into being the
parents of a little entrepreneur.
As you know, being eleven years old drastically limits
your
earning possibilities. You are unable to "formally"
hold a job position in a company. Babysitting is
one choice, but my boy says, "That's for girls!" I
believe my son will learn so many valuable life-
lessons in this venture and earn the money he needs
for anything he should ever want (including
college!). Listed below are some of the benefits of
childhood enterprise:
Value of Money
Nothing
can be more
beneficial to a child than the realization of how much
labor earns a dollar. You will find your child unwilling
to spend his money on frivolous things, simply
because he knows how hard he had to work to earn
the cash. When your child asks you to buy him
certain items, he will likely be more aware of the
value of the item than before the business venture.
I like to explain to my children how many hours
Daddy has to work to pay for the things we buy.
If we go to lunch together, I will say, "Let's thank
Daddy
for working for one hour to provide this lunch for us,
and thank God for providing Daddy's job." This helps
to put the value of money into perspective for a
child, and also stirs thankfulness within their hearts.
Social Etiquette
In the
business world, there
are social do's and don'ts. If your child is to
succeed, he will need to learn these right away.
Being polite, respectful and learning to set
boundaries with others are valuable lessons to be
learned. These social skills will be priceless as your
child enters the job market as an adult or even as a
teen. Excruciatingly poor social skills have been a
complaint among
employers as they interview young adults of this
generation. As an adult, excellent social skills can be
the edge
your child needs to land the job/account of his
dreams.
Initiative & Work Ethic
There is
nothing more
educational to a child than swallowing this
concept, "If I do nothing, I gain nothing." If your
child is looking to create an income for himself, he
will quickly learn that this can only happen by setting
goals and then actively reaching them. As a
parent it is
best to help your child develop a schedule for his
endeavor--but not to constantly remind him or take
over his duties. I understand this is difficult for
we "helicopter-moms," but allowing your child to fail
can actually help him develop his own
internal alarm clock. Lessons of responsibility step in
only where loving well-intentioned parents don't!
After your child falls flat on his face, be there to
lovingly restore him and assist him in problem-solving.
Business Basics
Once your child has
operated his own business, you will never again hear
the
question, "Why do I have to learn math?! Will I ever
use this in my life?!" They will know first-hand that
math and business go hand-in-hand. Along with
sharpening math skills, they will learn how to plan for
supply restock
and use profits for reinvestment in the company.
Business can prepare a child to begin to think
long-term as opposed to in the
moment.
Freedom & Power
I
remember how it felt to be
a child. You did not have the power to make your
own decisions or create your own schedule. If you
needed or wanted to buy something, you had to ask
your parents. If they said "No!" you were just out of
luck! You were living at the mercies of your
parents.
How powerless and frustrated I felt!
Allowing your child to run a business is a great
opportunity for your child to gain some control over
their life. It gives them the freedom to spend their
money as they choose, and to make small but
important decisions
regarding the operation of their business. The
satisfaction they will feel as they master these feats
will build self-
esteem like nothing else can.
Self-Sufficiency
Teaching
your child
to supply his own income is teaching your child how
to rely on himself instead of employers to provide his
needs. Of course, there is a dependency on the
customer when self-employed--in order to gain
income one must
have clientele. Starting your child
out as a business-minded individual when young will
help to spur new venture ideas as they grow. They
may choose
to be self-employed for the remainder of their lives
simply because you steered them in this direction as
a youth.
Cures Boredom
Nothing can
cure boredom more quickly than the prospect of
earning your own cash! A bored person has a boring
life! Give your child an opportunity for working hard
on their own goals as opposed to using their time
playing video games or watching television. The
phrase, "I'm bored!" may finally be put to rest for
eternity!
Never pressure your child to begin a
business simply because it's what you want
for him. Run the idea by your child, and see if he
shows interest. If genuine interest is displayed,
nurture that passion by guiding and encouraging--
never pressuring. Yes, an income will be generated
and many important lessons learned--but FUN is the
main idea here! Childhood is much too precious to
waste! Joyful enterprising to you and yours.
Check out these awesome resources which assist
your child in entrepreneurship:
Ever heard the ol' adage, "A womans work is never
done."? Well, anyone who is a mother and housewife
knows that this statement is all too true. The exact
second in which something is cleaned--it begins to
become dirty again. It feels like some cruel and sick
trick someone has played on us, doesn't it?! "Ha-ha-
ha!", laughs the evil housework elf. "Watch her slave
and stress about her housework--watch her get
behind on laundry and just when she gets caught
up again (the elf writhes his hands in glee) ha-ha-ha-
-they'll be another pile ready to
go!"
Okay, so I know in reality there is no housework elf
who curses and condemns us to a lifetime of grief. I
am learning in small degrees how to manage these
things. Sometimes I am good at it and at other
times I am OH SO BAD! I have come to the
conclusion that one person cannot do the work of six
people! With this in mind, I wanted to share with
you a
plan we have used in our home when
there is more work than
minutes on the clock. It's called the "Family
Chore Card Game."
How it works is very simple. You (the all-knowing
mother) possess a deck of cards which lists all of the
household chores that need to be done. You gather
the family 'round the table for a fun game of
dispersing chores! Deal the cards out just like you
would any other card game (remember you and your
spouse get cards too!). Have each family
member look through the chores for
which they are responsible. Allow them to trade
chores with one another (and with you) if there are
tasks one person dislikes that another may enjoy.
You may wish to limit to only one or two trades
or the trading may fill the day!
Now, blast your rockinest cleaning music! Watch
gleefully as your family works together to
get the house clean. If you wish, you can set a
family reward in place for after the work is done.
You may reward them with a family outing, dessert, a
movie or whatever you decide is most motivating to
your pseudo-maid clan. Enjoy your sparkling home!
Okay...you've read the title of this article and either
you're excited, bewildered--or a little bit of both!
Yes, I said it--HOMEMADE microwave popcorn.
WHY? Well for a few simple reasons--it saves
money, you get to control your own calorie, sodium
and fat intake, and in light of recent claims of a
cancer
epidemic among those
who work in microwave popcorn factories--it's
apparently
safer too!
You will need:
1/3 cup popcorn kernels
1 brown paper lunch sack
Butter-flavored cooking spray (optional, can use
melted butter)
Place kernels in paper sack, fold top down and
microwave for 2 minutes or until you hear the kernels
pop less frequently.
After the popcorn is done--spray butter
flavored
cooking spray (which has NO calories whatsoever!)
and add salt to taste.
In the past I have prepared these sacks in
advance and left them in the pantry for the kids to
pop themselves.